Before I get into explaining, let me preface it by saying: dating has never been easy, but these days, there seems to be many more obstacles and challenges… despite our ability to be in touch 24/7, 365 days a year.
Welcome to a world where women will probably screen you for creepy statuses, whether you have any real friends, what you do for work and fun, places you go. Not to mention, if you have any “undesirable” qualities which may be perceived in the wrong light to someone who doesn’t know you well… all before you even say “hello”!
Talking to one of my best friends Rosalia Vipisi,he had more than enough to share regarding dating in the 21st century.If you’re going to do it right, you just might need a little help from someone who knows this inside out•••
” A well-dressed single gentleman pulls up to the front of a single lady’s home in the early evening, steps out of his car, and approaches her front door. The two of them were introduced to one another by a mutual friend at a social function some weeks prior.
It is their first date.
As she steps outside, he offers an umbrella to shield her from rain showers, walks with her to the passenger side of the car, and opens the door for her. She notices the interior of the car is spotless.
The pair takes a scenic route to a special destination: a reserved table at an elegant restaurant. Conversation flows naturally for a couple hours, with each beginning to learn about the background and interests of the other.
After dessert, the gentleman pays for the meal and then drives the lady home. Accompanying her to her door, he thanks her with a warm smile and departs.
This may be repeated on a regular basis, and could eventually lead to courtship and marriage as the two get to know one another through hours of conversation, spread over months.
Compared to dating in 21st Century,this is a complitely different chronicle.How? Technolgy and Internet has really disfigured it.Websites were commonly used in dating but with time applications have taken over with millions of users.Take facebook as an example,connects hoi polloi across the big blue marble.
After a long stressful day this guy knocks off himself with a couple shots of liqour while leaning lackadaisically on his sofa.Logs in on his facebook account,comes across a beautiful girl on his timeline,he messages her.A reply after a reply,emojis after emojis and finally asks for her number since most of us find whatsapp to be the best for dating since one can send and receive photos,videos hodgepodge.
The two then pick a cool place to meet up for their first date.Unlike in the past,in this case the guy gets a blowjob and smashes the girl on the same very day.And the two we look at each other like it wasnt something new.This goes hand in hand with girls becoming way too thirsty for sex.In 2017 a guy is obliged to eat ass and if he wont he would automaticaly be viewed as one of the most outdated and oldfasioned guy of all times !”concluded Vipisi.
Keeping faith with long-term love is hard to do. But let me ask you this: imagine a world free of marriage or commitment. We each live as we please, with no pain or responsibility for anyone but ourselves. Now, does that world look better or worse?
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